NGFL

Today's post is mainly for guys. For the girls you can still read this and see how it is like in a guys point of view in life.

Well there is such thing as the EPL, NFL bla... bla.... bla... (omg lamg ==!!)
But today I'm going to touch on the topic that is called NGFL.

Has any guy felt like the cool looking guys always gets the girls? Lets me see a raise of hands!

*soo many*

Do feel you that your always so nice to the girls, but some good looking guy steals her from you?

O_O * thousands and thousands come*

Do you feel that the nice guys gets the boot while the cool, good looking guys always win?

*There were so many hands that day that the earth was covered in darkness.*

How do I know that there is so many guys out there like that?

Simple it happens to everyone.

NGFL.

Nice Guys Finish Last.

Its a hypothesis that me and my friends came up with.

Why do nice guys always finish last?

Its sad but true, good looking guys always get the easy way to everything, mostly girls.

While the nice ones, are always offering themselves as tribute but not getting any attention.

The reason why is because, everyone looks at everyone else for their appearance.They don't think how the person's personality nor attitude is like.To all of us looks is important.

Its sad that everyone looks for a person by their looks, its a common bad-habit of the world.

But there is a secret you can use to win any girl if you wanted.

If you nice enough, patient enough, and faithful.

You can win any girl.

Looks is not imporant, but you yourself should try to look decent and normal.

If you got messy hair, make it look nice. If your wearing old clothes put on some nice jeans and a T-shirt. No one likes a messy dirty person, so instead of going..

I am ugly... no one will like me...

Buck up! Make yourself look decent and nice.

If you can do that, I'm sure girls will notice you.

Secondly, you need some confidence to be friends with the girl or girls. You need to make friends with them, talk and have fun.

If you think you can just stay where you are and one day some girl will come after you, you're dead wrong. Guy should always take the first step, you should have some confidence to say hi to girls. What will happen to you? Will you die? No. You just need to start of small by saying a hey,hi or hello. Then work from there and build a conversation with the girl.

There is one principle that you must learn, which is changing yourself for the girl.

It not that you must change how your personality is, but how you act, your confidence, how you approach or display yourself as.

This is really important if you want a girl to be your friend.

YOU MUST CHANGE IF YOU WANT HER.

As I have said you can't sit down and wait for her to come to you, that most likely won't happen, it only happens in the movies which is always fake.

You must take the initiative and change the way you act.

Put some bravery and confidence to boost your appearance, wake up everyone morning and make yourself look good. Say hello to them, offer your help with some confidence.

As you can see, confidence plays a huge role.

You will be more outstanding, and people will think that your not such a "loser" ( no offence) that you won't even talk to anyone else.

Thirdly,

if the cool guy gets the girl, even if his together with the girl. Be a friend to that girl, don't push yourself on her but be a friend to her. To have her, you need to be really patient and faithful.

Be a friend to her and show her that your always there for her, be faithful to her by not going after other girls just because you can't have her.

If your patient enough one day you will get her.

Its like my friend that I talked about from my last post, he was patient with the girl and faithful to her for 5 years!!! Can you do that? He can and his living a happy life with her now.

So a little recap

1. Do not always look at person by their appearances

2. Take the initiative to make yourself to better

3. If you want the girl, you have to change your bad habits
4. Be patient and faithful

And lastly...

5. Your not the only guy out there!

NGFL is a huge community is all the guys got together!

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ARIGATO!