NGFL

Today's post is mainly for guys. For the girls you can still read this and see how it is like in a guys point of view in life.

Well there is such thing as the EPL, NFL bla... bla.... bla... (omg lamg ==!!)
But today I'm going to touch on the topic that is called NGFL.

Has any guy felt like the cool looking guys always gets the girls? Lets me see a raise of hands!

*soo many*

Do feel you that your always so nice to the girls, but some good looking guy steals her from you?

O_O * thousands and thousands come*

Do you feel that the nice guys gets the boot while the cool, good looking guys always win?

*There were so many hands that day that the earth was covered in darkness.*

How do I know that there is so many guys out there like that?

Simple it happens to everyone.

NGFL.

Nice Guys Finish Last.

Its a hypothesis that me and my friends came up with.

Why do nice guys always finish last?

Its sad but true, good looking guys always get the easy way to everything, mostly girls.

While the nice ones, are always offering themselves as tribute but not getting any attention.

The reason why is because, everyone looks at everyone else for their appearance.They don't think how the person's personality nor attitude is like.To all of us looks is important.

Its sad that everyone looks for a person by their looks, its a common bad-habit of the world.

But there is a secret you can use to win any girl if you wanted.

If you nice enough, patient enough, and faithful.

You can win any girl.

Looks is not imporant, but you yourself should try to look decent and normal.

If you got messy hair, make it look nice. If your wearing old clothes put on some nice jeans and a T-shirt. No one likes a messy dirty person, so instead of going..

I am ugly... no one will like me...

Buck up! Make yourself look decent and nice.

If you can do that, I'm sure girls will notice you.

Secondly, you need some confidence to be friends with the girl or girls. You need to make friends with them, talk and have fun.

If you think you can just stay where you are and one day some girl will come after you, you're dead wrong. Guy should always take the first step, you should have some confidence to say hi to girls. What will happen to you? Will you die? No. You just need to start of small by saying a hey,hi or hello. Then work from there and build a conversation with the girl.

There is one principle that you must learn, which is changing yourself for the girl.

It not that you must change how your personality is, but how you act, your confidence, how you approach or display yourself as.

This is really important if you want a girl to be your friend.

YOU MUST CHANGE IF YOU WANT HER.

As I have said you can't sit down and wait for her to come to you, that most likely won't happen, it only happens in the movies which is always fake.

You must take the initiative and change the way you act.

Put some bravery and confidence to boost your appearance, wake up everyone morning and make yourself look good. Say hello to them, offer your help with some confidence.

As you can see, confidence plays a huge role.

You will be more outstanding, and people will think that your not such a "loser" ( no offence) that you won't even talk to anyone else.

Thirdly,

if the cool guy gets the girl, even if his together with the girl. Be a friend to that girl, don't push yourself on her but be a friend to her. To have her, you need to be really patient and faithful.

Be a friend to her and show her that your always there for her, be faithful to her by not going after other girls just because you can't have her.

If your patient enough one day you will get her.

Its like my friend that I talked about from my last post, he was patient with the girl and faithful to her for 5 years!!! Can you do that? He can and his living a happy life with her now.

So a little recap

1. Do not always look at person by their appearances

2. Take the initiative to make yourself to better

3. If you want the girl, you have to change your bad habits
4. Be patient and faithful

And lastly...

5. Your not the only guy out there!

NGFL is a huge community is all the guys got together!

If you want to post about your NGFL life, please proceed to the NGFL Forum 

from the main website at 

Help The Needed

And click NGFL Forum!

ARIGATO!

How a real relationship should develop.

Remember what I said about the whole " boy likes girl, girl likes boy = happy ending?"

I'll laugh at that over and over again.

Those are petty fairy tales, conjured up by movies, stories, and magazines.

The real fact is....

If you do that, you will end up with a broken heart, hurt, sad, wondering why you choose him/her , and etc...

Relationship with each other starts like a building.

Each brick needs to be laid down and slowly build upon it.

What I mean is...

when you like this girl/guy you can't just get into a relationship with the person because you like that person, there are things like whether you know the person enough, whether you actually like the person or just having a daily crush, etc..

Even if you manage to sustain that type of relationship, good luck then.

These types of relationships won't last.

The reason why is because, YOU do not know enough of the other person.

You dono how the other person acts, likes and dislikes, how the other person is when he/she is angry/sad/happy/mood-swing.

Because you do not know these things, when you get together right away and during your relationship you found out something terrible that you wouldn't have wanted to know.

Then because of that you start having doubts and you wonder why your together.

Is this true?

Alot of people can testisfy about this and I assure you they will tell you

don't get into a relationship so fast.

What you need to know first is...

The Fundamentals that need to be laid down.

When you like that special some one, awww shes pretty or man his cute..

Then the first thing you need to do is becoming friends.

WHAT?

BECOME FRIENDS.

Why friends? Why can't we just be together 4eva! =D ?

Are you stupid? Didn't you just read what I said?.... Sigh if you do that you will fail a thousand times plus one.

Friends is the most essential thing to developing your relationship with the other person.

Friends are teenagers most closest talking, responsive beings.

Friends is how you get to know about the other person, how you can find out what he/she is like.

For example...

Do you have a best friend? or even a good friend? or childhood friend?

You kinda would know how that person reacts to words, what hurts him/her, what food he likes, his hobbies, how to help him when his angry or sad, what fun you have together, and etc..

If you can't see it by now its like OMG....

Those points up there are the essential things to getting your life long lover.

This is why being friends is so important.

When you become friends with the other person you like, you are actually starting a good journey with that person. You start talking with him/her you talk about things you like or he/she likes you find out that there are some thing in common and even some things which both of you can't agree with. You see him/her when they are sad, or hurt, and because you are a friend and you know alot of things of that person, you would actually know how to help them.

Rather than keep going on and on.

What you should understand that is..

Be friends with each other, learn about each other. If things doesnt seem right than you are not meant to be with that person. This way you won't be hurt because your not together, and you can still have a friend.  

When you like some one become friends and one day, which should be when your 18, and things are super well, that is the time you should start thinking about becoming a couple.

But I'll talk about being a couple on another post.

Oh one last thing.

Why did I say 18?

That long? Did I miss calculate? OMG WHERES MY SCIENTIFIC CALCULATOR???

==!!!!

Being friends for that long show how both sides are willing to wait, and how much they want to wait for that one person to be with him/her for the rest of their lives and knowing that they made the right choice.

Because if you can't wait for that person, that shows you don't really love him/her,

and that is really sad.

Let's have a review!

How to develop a real relationship?

1. Be Friends

2. Don't rush

3. Take your time, even though it is long

In the end..

You and your partner will be happy!

Help The Needed. WHHhhhattt????

HelpTheNeeded.

It's simple.

I'm not helping those who are poor financially, but for those who are in need of help in teen help situations.

There are many types of problem and

It goes a little like this..

Sometimes....

Guys and gals do not really understand the principles of getting into a relationship.

They think its only "boy likes girl, girl likes boy" and "both become a couple and live happily ever after" uhhhhh noooooooo~~~~

Some other times....

Guy are having problem speaking to girls, awwww....

Some other times...

Girls have problems speaking to guys, awww......

Or...

the problem which I love that is...

N.G.F.L.

Nice Guys Finish Last.

Good looking guys always gets the easy way to girls..

Nice guys only gets the boot at the end of the day.

Well this blog is more for the guys, but if you want to ask you can.

I'll blog about things or situations that happens feel free to comment or ask.